Lan, With the Ws in general: "if you're wrong, you're wrong. If you're right you're dead wrong". I've minimized the flow of "communication" with my W down to a trickle so there's much less chance to be wrong! I was advised to not react and defer response 24-48 hours but later I was advised to not react and respond immediately. I'll let you make whatever sense you can of these aphorisms. And so, yes, indeed, you're bad at communicating with W ;-).