I did not sleep well last night as this all has my head spinning.
I did speak with my lawyer's daughter this morning (she just passed the bar and is working for her father now, she called me about something else). Anyway, I told her what was going on and she couldn't believe it. She doesn't blame me for being upset and is going to talk to her father to see what can be done as she agrees it is damaging to the children to see it. She said we may be able to get it where there is no over nights but I am not holding my breath.
I also found out that JA left the boys with the ow over the weekend so he could go to work. It is in the stipulation that she is NOT allowed to watch them. So right there he bent the rules. He probably figures he can get away with it as he gets away with everything. He is probably right.
I have not mentioned at all to him what the boys told me. It won't do no good.
This whole thing really has me sick. I am the boys mother and I can't do anything to protect them from all this crap.
I did voice my concerns with the boys yesterday. Letting them know what their father and ow are doing is not right. I told them that God frowns upon it.
S7 he really doesn't care that ow sleeps over and shares a bed with their father.
So it seems that JA has them brainwashed into believing it's ok.
I let S7 know it's NOT ok.
My worst fear is that my boys will grow up to be just like JA.
When we brought them into this world we had them same set of values and morals, now I am the only one who still has them and I am trying to install them in my children but it's not working if JA is teaching them the total opposite.
S4 also told me last night that he loves the ow. I thought I was going to throw up.
I thought I was going to throw up.