Doesn't go against anything as far as I'm concerned. You need to be armed.
GH, if I were you (and fortunately I'm not), I wouldn't lay down any ultimatums. How many do you have to lay down before it just looks needy and desperate? I'd just tell her that you are done and moving back to England. I'd ask her to not contact you....that the only contact you'd be having is the divorce papers. And then I'd go. You've made a boundary before, she stepped across it, now show that there were consequences. She sees you as someone that can be used as a sugar daddy. How good a friend/soul mate could she be and do this stuff behind your back?
Sorry about all this. It really does suck.
I wouldn't believe OM. I confronted my W's OP and got the same reaction.....and it was just blowing smoke. He wants your wife and doesn't care how he achieves it. You aren't allies.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
