H moving out!! Crisis I need help

[twinhope]

I hit submit by accident! My suggestion is to let him be. Don't pick any fights with H. It won't matter and they don't care. They are looking for a reason to justify their behavior and that is all they need is for us to screw up! Treat him as if he is a neighbor. You can't expect him to do the right thing. I know it is hard but you can do it and have your H be responsible for his visitation and financial support.