I haven't posted in awhile on my thread. It took me awhile to find it. I don't have a lot of time. I am still talking to XH on the phone about once a week now (MUCH better from every day). I have told him what he needs to change in his life in order to have healthy relationships. We'll see what he does. He keeps getting speeding tickets and other things and basically his life sucks right now. I have sympathy but not much. Here I sit with an STD thansk to him, so how bad can I feel for him? I think he is still see the OW at least part of the time because he mentioned her in our last conversation.

No mention of my birthday last time I talked to him. Not that I expected him to say anything.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08