Thank you DQ -- I was hoping you had read that post. I know what you are saying, and I know it makes sense. I just keep going back to, "I told him he could have a revenge A" and now what am I supposed to say?
"Honey, I feel like you are not focused on us." No matter what I say, he will know that I've been snooping around and I know he'll say, "I'm not the one who had the A -- who are you to think you can check my phones and internet usage?"
I just don't know how to talk about this to him without him thinking, "What about me? When do I get my fun?" Which is something he's said from the beginning.
Sorry if I'm babbling, I just don't know what to do!
