From what I understand of my W, her downward spiral took 3 years, so it parallels yours, difference is you made a choice to fight and my W made a choice to run away.

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WDID: but it sure would have been easier the first years.
everyone takes the easy way out, no one seems to want to struggle, you are one of those unique individuals who is willing to do the work needed to make a marriage work. Your husband is a luck fellow.

We are lucky to have you here with us also

W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08