Just realising now that W seems to "shoot first" then think later about what she says or do's, not just with me but in general, if it catches me on a bad day then it gets a bad response.

We spoke today on the phone and I apologised for my behaviour at the previous day, I told her that we are still poor at communicating with each other. Her response was " No Lan you're poor at communicating with me".Hmmmm.... I'll bite my tongue for now and work on my communication skills.

Lanzo