LOL no we probably arent. may ask you a question or 2? if they are to hard or personal tell me to shut up lol, i can handle it, since I am so isolated, its hard.

did you find anything to help with the naseau from the chemo? I so hate it, and nothing has really helped, and its so hard trying to explain to family or people on days when I take it, omg I JUST CANT TODAY!

ok and 2, do you really think your BC contributed to the sitch in your marriage? I mean, our H are so diff, in how they handled things, but, I get so angry thinking that this is all ok, because of my lupus and more than likely cancer, cancer is the only thing that would do what they had to do, and with me already on it, my results arent as cut and dry as yours would be as you werent already on chemo. our health, the scared of what if I die, can it REALLY lead men to what they are doing? or is it just something in them that was already there, and our health issues triggered it?
I am trying so hard to understand............


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