The wife was the same. At one point we talked about it, she thought she just needed meds. I was against meds at the time. She went and got a prescription for AD's from her OB-GYN?
She knew she needed help then. She KNOWS she needs help now. She just won't take the steps to really help herself. Seeking counseling. Seeking out our Pastor. She thinks she can do it alone, herself.
Thank God you figured it out, even if it was on your own.
Try not to place blame. Even on yourself. Too hard for others to see the symptoms. Even the ones you love.
Bless ya', Beej. (my new one, maybe)
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."