My H was supportive to my face, but I found out after that he was terrified and cried everyday in the shower. When the MLC started he used to tell me that he cried me out.
I didn't mind bald. I had 2 very good wigs but hated wearing them. I always had long hair, so the bald look was a shock, and I was careful to wear a bandana and cap if I thought it might upset someone. My S25 had the hardest time.
My hair now is about 5 inches long and spikey/curley. I really like it and I get compliments everywhere, every day. Except from H. When I pressed him he just said, it's sooo different.
I've also lost 35 lbs. But it's like he doesn't even see me any more.
Last edited by 1hope; 10/14/0806:40 PM.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
