LE,

Hang in there your doing so good, i know u down. My wife made the same statement that u made, OM accepts me for who i am not who he wants me to be.. That was a big problem with me, the position i had the time i felt i had to keep a certain apperance for the community....Such a mess up, about 6 months ago was when i realized i married her for who she was, the funny, laughed all the time person.. Thats what she gets now... Cant change the past just can be happy and show her i accept her for who she is, not what she is doing. LE i think u are ahead of me, and doing well. Hope u get to talk to the kidos today. Got to get ready for daughter 18th today, kida sad, she is a adult today. I text W on the way in from work, our daughter is an adult now :-( she text me back, she is...but she will always be our little girl...One of the few things we did right! That was kinda sad to me.


Me-39
STBXW-42
together 20yrs
M-17
Kids-2
D-18
S-16
Bomb-96
Bomb-2005
bomb- 3/2008 for a year
Separated 5/08
Filing in July
Today.... Slowly learning a new life!