Ok So I have an update for you all. He is still drinking some but very much less than before. We are doing well. The kids couldn't be happier. We are spending a lot of time together as a Family.
I am actually doing these things more and he is receptive. more open mouth kissing and snuggling and touching. More hugging and talking. More holding hands than in a very long time. the sex is far more intimate and loving. There is not so much pressure on his part for me to be a Diva all the time. He did talk to me about how he feels when I don't do x, y or z and in a way that made sense and wasn't angry or too hurt. The positives for sure out weigh the negatives. I feel { we feel } a better connection. he is really coming along with me for this, this time around. He isnt dragging his feet or making excuses or blaming just me.
I am feeling very content. Mot elated or sad the ups and downs I am so used to. but content and happy to know that we are moving forward and growing...
Yesterday out of the blue he called me to ask if I could meet him for lunch.
He hasnt done this in a awhile. WE had a great weekend and then he calls me and tells me to get dolled up and meet him. Awesome. Usually he pulls back and we start all over. Not this time, and then when the kids got home we took them for ice cream and we sat and talked like a family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All his idea, none of my insisting or prodding.
Hope you all are well, I am enjoying my 'New ' Hubby. WOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!~!!!!!! ~Ava
