My W Convinced, D Is The Answer!

[Little Engine]

I can see where the resentment would evolve goldey. I'm sure resentment towards me is another reason my W bailed. I've learned that you have to accept someone as they are, in order to truly love them. I couldn't do that with my W and now I am here and miserable. If you leave, then your H may get to the point that I have reached. My W's 1st affair only strengthened my resolve that I was right and she was wrong. Now I understand that she wasn't happy and made herself emotionally avaiable. She has her issues and hasn't done anything to resolve them. I cannot believe her next relationship will be any better than ours. She doesn't see it that way, so I have no choice but to accept it and move on.