The OM HAS seemed to hang in there, which is all the more reason h4h should NOT go out dating other people right now. Not to mention that he is still MARRIED. I did this, and I know now how wrong it was. Pull back, yes. Drop the rope if need be. But, unless YOU are divorcing HER, h4h, and you are ok with that, then you should not be taking the next step in any kind of relationship with any other woman. This is what everyone knows, but something we all seem to forget and try to make excuses for it (which is what I did).