I am not sure what W is expecting or wants. Honestly, I am trying to be as friendly as possible during our brief encounters. You are probably right about the less I am "there" the more she seems to "come around". I can not continue worrying about whether she is coming around or not however. Nor do I want to make an effort to "not" be there. I guess what I am trying to say is that I do not want to DB my W. I just want to be myself and do my thing. I think I am at an OK place...you are right, the door is not shut but the welcome mat is not out either.
