Of course your D thinks you are a great daddy, you are!
So, W is wanting "wet" kisses from you even though you are not together at this point? Interesting........it is as I have noticed before, the less you are "there" the more she comes looking for you, if you know what I mean...
You sound like you are in a good place, it is expected that you would be sad, disappointed, etc. but you are being very realistic and open-minded. You have not shut the door, nor do you have it wide open beckoning her to come in. I think being in-between is prob. a good place to be.
