Sandy, Puppy is right. You've got to set boundaries with you H, no matter how comforting it is to see those bits and pieces of the old man. He isn't necessarily "coming around" when he comes for his booty call, he's getting his needs met, feeding his ego, proving to himself that he's not really a bad guy, keeping one foot in the door but leaving you on the fence. You are enabling him to do that with the booty calls. You won't like yourself later, no matter which way this goes.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
