Just got a reponse back from her, she said that she wount be bothering us again.
However for someone who says H caused her so much pain she had to add "Please take good care of H"
If thats not a call out to him I don't know what is!

Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda