AND it does not help me. It makes me feel more responsible and more dirty ( for want of a better word ) and strangely a little protective of OM.
Yes, the same with my wife. She was protective of this guy. He was an unemployed drunk, and she actually thought he should get the kids in their broken marriage. It was unreal. (he didn't get the kids, and last I heard, does not bother to visit them.)
I didn't want to tell anyone of our situation, but weirdly, my wife told everyone. Like it was nothing. "oh, what's happening with me? Well, we got some new car insurance, and I had an affair." I thought, how insensitive can you be?
Quote:
Thing is , I have to stop pinning my emotion and happiness to him - I can hear you from here SPM.
Ha! yes yes yes. Who cares if he is up or down. You have your own moods and emotions and they don't depend on his.
I think you'll probably get some good insight from Sandi, too.
No headway with the realtor. But like you said, this is a long process. Even if we get communication, that is just the start of being able to find a solution to the foreclosure. I don't have a great deal of hope that communication, once established, will lead to fruitful conversations.
