The problem is, every time SHE gets to call the shots and make this HER decision, she learns nothing. Even if this didn't go your way, had you stayed distant from her these past two weeks and let her stew in her own juices, and YOU would have set the conditions by which you MIGHT be willing to re-engage with her, then MAYBE she would have learned and grown.
That all being said, you're projecting. WHO THE HELL KNOWS what she's going to say -- she's all over the road. And so are you.