And...whatever emotional connection he has developed with her due to all their phone conversations when this affair started....
being his bootie call is a connection we have... she will never be able to get in between the bond we have in the bedroom. I do want him to remember what we have.
Sandy,
Believe me, he remembers. I don't have to sample the Chunky Monkey to know how awesome Chunky Monkey tastes. But if you keep giving of yourself to him, with no boundaries and no conditions, then you are actually CONDITIONING him for bad behavior. Conditioning and enabling.
I think you know this already. I'm not sure why you come on here and seem to ask us to validate what you're already doing, when what you're already doing is, by your own admission, "losing the battle."
If you want to win the battle -- and the larger war -- then start doing things differently.
