Thanks, she has excellent advice and I follow it to the letter. I have told my kids that I don't wish to hear about there mom unless they feel it is very important to me. I have put togehter a list of people i do not wish to engage in conversation with about my W, read it, memorizd it then destroyed it. This brake job does have me anxious, can't really explain it. I think because once it's done, the rope will be dropped and the ball will be completely in her court regarding our R/M. I have things I need to focus on, the finances, the holidays and he camp closing. This is huge because my biggest support group next to all of you has been them. I am looking forward to not going there to stand on my own two feet and see how i come out of it. They are only a phone call away, but I need to know that I can handle my down days by myself. Look in on me and thnaks,
