Just a bump here, really. I don't remember you, could have been just before I started here.

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I want to give up the girl friend and save my marriage but affraid that if I dont play my cards right I'll loose both of them


That is an odd statement. What do you mean here? Obviously if you want to salvage your M, you can't have both...as long as there is someone waiting in the wings, you are being completely unfair to both and do not have your heart into saving your M.