Don't know what to do- Please help

[saffie]

I can imagine how frustrated you are feeling with your H.

I know that I used to feel my H was so immature and emotionally juvenile when it came to the OW and I couldn't believe how much he loved having his ego stroked

Hang on to the thought that if your H did really want to leave you he has had plenty of opportunity to.....and he hasn't. That is what you have to go by.

OW is a woman scorned, (ha ha!!!!!!), and they are nasty and vindictive often. I am really pleased you have decided to not contact her because you are very unlikely to hear anything truthful from her.