Mare, Wow!!! That is really all I know to say! I think you need to think of the fact that he has put your health at risk here (which it seems you have already thought of that) because I don't think that many people could honestly forgive something so so so....I don't even have words to describe such a thing. Your personality sounds like a good one and think you should try to seek some professional help and let him deal with all of his problems himself. If he is this busy with all of these other women, then it doesn't sound like he is concentrating on getting well himself. I really feel for you and I hope that he realizes what a good thing he is losing. Try to get as much on him as you can. Man, I would like to see him lie his way out of this one! Goodluck and take care, Asilee
[This message has been edited by asilee (edited 04-26-99).]