Hey ITH,
Sounds like you had a fantastic night!!! And yay for the emotional s*x, I am sure your female intuition was bang on there. I am reading and thinking that unlike alot of us, you are in a pretty standard DB position.. he can see you are trying and making changes, but he hasnt yet got the confidence in himself to try the R again, it can take ages from what I understand, for the WAS to trust the changes the LBS has made as ones that are going to stick and that things wont be like they were before. On top of that, seems he has some pretty generic MLC crap going on in his head too.. and debating kids in his head is I am sure part of that (as that is a HUGE commitment right). Has he ever expressed a broodiness before?

I thikn that communication will improve generally as the week progresses, so heres definetly sending you good vibes for Thursday!

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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