Refuse To Lose, Part XI: Clock is Ticking

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Rob,
I'm glad to see you are gathering your strength and yet your W continues to paddle around in ever decreasing circles of blame, anger and bitterness. It does beggar belief that she has the cheek to raise with you on the phone your D's dofficulties with the divorce as being down to honest comments you made to her. Which sound like fair enough comments to me, to explain it to her patiently and honestly (as with each year, she will get older and wiser and ask more questions, so better to be honest now right). BUT.. that is NOT the same as subjecting a young child to a revolving door of man (as this is the 2nd since she hoiked her out of your house, isnt it?). Thats totally unnacceptable!!!! It must be frustrating enough for you that she has no moral compass about this, but also, that she keeps deflecting the blame your way. But it doesnt surprise me, she must have had a tonne of blame and resentments in order to force this D, so I guess its more of the same from her, different subject matter.

I think if you maintain your dignity, your integrity and your morals, one day, maybe one day, she will wise up and have some humility over her actions since leaving you. Heres hoping! Thanks for sticking with me, I'm feeling pretty lonely right now, I guess DBing is something to hold onto isnt it, and I know what you mean when you say the heart is slow to catch up with the head.

Ali xxx