i am so very sorry. i am very lousy at giving advice, mostly because i have so much drama in my life i hardly get to other peoples' threads.
i was fighting tooth and nail (and tears) to save my marriage. i was completely dumbfounded last week when after telling my wife to piss off, she came back and held up the white flag.
it shouldn't have to be like that.......for anyone.........
none of this is fair, people who truly repent should have another chance. i wish you the best of luck in your situation
one question though, what was your secret? the affair ?
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
