I talked w/ my therapist today and the not looking at her thing was basically hurt on my part. I didn't look at her on Monday in court and I didn't look her in the face on Thursday when we were at the DMV switching titles. I just couldn't do it. I didn't want to do it. We decided today it is left over hurt from this whole thing, and I'm guessing a little bit of anger as well.
I'll be over it soon enough and maybe she'll actually find a time when she realizes I'm not her whipping boy anymore and we can be civil and cooperative about raising our D. I'm not sure she'll ever get there, but I'll be willing to work w/ her if she ever does.
What I won't continue to do is allow her to treat me like crap. I'm working on my boundaries and I only wish I'd had discovered how to create them earlier. Hindsight is 20/20.
