shout out to T2L...I thought maybe you never returned from Disneyland! Glad the plan is going well. I am happy for you. Truly. Need to start reading book but will start tomorrow. It really sounds like H is responding to the physcology of all of this. Pretty interesting. Now what is the OW doing why H is spending time where he belongs??? Pretty soon you will be the OW and she will get a taste of what she did to your family. so you are flirting and he is responding.

Had some off time. Just was isolating myself which is not good thing. I so much want to get to the point of Plan A or Plan B, I have just been feeling discouraged after H said I will never live with you again and move on. I think H is out with OW tonight. It just has been so much unhappiness with me and my girls. He was here yesterday and today he calls and keeps asking to see D15. She asked me if when H calls does she have to pick up the phone. I told her she should out of respect but she says she has no respect for H at all. I told her he left me not you and she says Mom, no he left both of us and I don't like it at all.

I have been praying to God to keep working on H.
I know it will take time but I just felt down. I am so used to trying to fix things and be in control and it is so difficult to not have any control of the situation. And tomorrow I have to go to meeting with OW and H will both be there. She just came off a great weekend of spending with all her family for her daughter's wedding and I am 2000 miles from my family with a WAS. I resent it. My highlight of the weekend was seeing Fireproof. I cried but felt some faith after seeing it.

T2L you are an inspiration to me and I am glad I am on this message board stich. I know it took you almost 6 months to get where you are so I have to continue to have faith in God that he hears all of our good prayers.

Keep posting.
Jgrind, marisol and twinhope hope you find us soon!

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09