It is hard to find something new that is your own. I have started taking Karate and it has helped me alot.

I had a strange experience with my daughter tonight after karate. She told me one of her friends moms has talked about setting me up with a friend of her's. I was taken aback, because I never thought of how to talk to my D14 about this. I told her I was not intersted in dating and that I was still married to her mother. She commented how mom was doing what she was doing(living with the OM) and I said "that's her choice"

I am not sure if that was the right thing to say. I did say to her " I am still married ot your mother" but I don't know how that worked.

How do I answer those kind of questions??


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon