Thanks OW...you know you are already following the secret in the fact that you made these purchases "as-if" you already have someplace to go!!!
I have read the secret and it is changing my whole outlook on life!! Now I want to read "The Law of Attraction: The teachings of Abraham" it is suppose to be the same principals but more in depth.
P.S. Thanks for helping the economy...lol. I did the same this weekend for work clothes.
Sounds like a great evening Sep! Way to go! I think you gave him just the right amount of space, he was probably just working out stuff in his cave. Keep it up!
So this morning I was getting ready and I always put the morning news show on tv while I am getting ready and what does the one achor woman mention??? 'The Secret' like Wowwww...it seems like it is following me around now!!! Pretty amazing!!
I will be a busy bee with GAL today. I mean most of it is work but todays agenda is Work job #1 then work job #2 then job #2 some co-workers asked me to join them out for a drink after...so I am going with my new co-workers.
Sorry I've been so absent from your thread lately!
It's really great that your H came over and you had a nice session...
You seem to have the distance thing down pat, i.e. knowing when to reach out and when to back off. Out of curiosity, how long has it been since you've had an R talk?
Very cool about the "Secret" too. I swear it works and is everywhere...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Wow..no R talk since the end of July. And that was very brief too, I just asked if he ever thought about our marriage and he replied "What kind of question is that??, Of course I think about our marriage!" I dropped it and decided not to add pressure and have never brought it up again.
It was a very nice session. I also loved that he texed me when he got home
Yes, it seems the secret is everywhere!! Crazy, yet assuring....
Do you have any kind of plan for your situation or in your case do you just, ala Secret, believe it will work out so go with the flow?
You seem to be doing really well!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I am ala Secret and winging it. I have a really good feeling that it will work and I remain positive to that fact. I am not going to stick to any 'plan' thereby reducing the any expectation let downs. I will just go with whatever flow he seems to be sending and push the boundries just a little to see if it gets anywhere and taking it from there.
I bought the Secret yesterday. Now I just need to sit down and read it. (and then live it...)
I am hoping for date night tonight... if it works out I plan on making it a great one! I have my new clothes ready to go- I'm gonna look great. Your last meeting with your H made me jealous !
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
I have been sooo busuy with work lately..YIKES!! Talk about the Secret, I said I will have more money and they have been giving me a TON of hours at work...Woooo Hoooo!! LoL
Also this new pt job has opened up a whole new door for GAL...I have a new group of friends that I hang out with. I went out Fri for a drink after work then Sat a few of us went out dancing. Then I went to the mall on Sun with a new co-worker. Today I was only suppose to work from 12-4 but they called me in at 10:30 and asked me to stay until 8:30...yes more hours in the paycheck!!
Last chitchat from H was Sat morning...lol, did have 4 days straight of texts so now back into his cave for a few days.
Thanks!!!