Thanks for stopping by my thread. I'm still catching up with everyone. And there are so many new people. So unfortunate.
I wish I had some words of wisdom but you know you're in the thoughts and prayers of so many people. I can't imagine going through what you, and so many others, are going through. But I would go through hell and high water for my daughter, too. They are our lives. We want the best for them. So stick to your guns and keep your eye on the ball.
Oh, I love costume talk! My D8's going to be a ladybug. I was like don't you want to be a princess or a fairy or something like that? No, wanted to be a bug!!! She does look cute in it believe it or not! Karen
My D's going to be Alice in Wonderland this year!!! She said it's one of the few good costumes for a blond. Usually she's a blond Native American Indian (I think she was an Indian in her previous life).
Karen, I think the lady bug costume sounds REALLY CUTE. Even better then a princess!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
I remember those days ... days of cute, magical costumes that bespeak of innocence and youth. Gone are those days for me. My D15 is dressing up as Columbia from Rocky Horror, complete with a gold sequined jacket, hat, red wig and fish net stockings. What happened here? I want to pull her winnie the pooh costume from 12 years ago out of the closet and see if I can stuff her into it!
Weird thing happened this week - ow's xh e-mailed me. Totally out of the blue. I have never spoken to the guy nor did I think he really knew anyone who has my e-mail address. The e-mail said something about getting together to talk about current situations - both of our custody battles/issues, etc. I don't see any point in having any contact with the guy. It seems a little late to exchange information. Yes.. I'm curious but I don't trust these people.. They're all nuts!
Olive! So nice to run into you and others I recognize on your thread! So this is where all you guys are!
As for OW's XH - I think that is totally spooky that he would want to contact you, let alone "meet" you to talk about the sitches. Just doesn't ring right in my book either. Glad to hear that your senses tell you to stay away from this guy - who needs some extra heartache about what happened then or now anyway?
So how you doing?
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
I agree, doesn't sound good to me either. I have no desire to meet or talk with OW's XH either. Seems like even the best possible outcome of that would still be pretty depressing!!! Karen
The depressing state of the economy makes it unlikely that the "dream home" will sell any time soon. So, $$$ remains very tight. I am so thankful that I have good job, though
stbxh is still living in the house most of the time which makes really GAL VERY difficult!
I used to love the holiday season but now I'm nervous about how awful it may be this year... Not that last year was so great but at least I was with my D every day.