Hi LD--I'm sorry you are struggling right now. Heed Sandi's wise advice! There is way too much cross talk and gossip occurring and that is bound to back fire. I know first hand.
The "Sampy" tidbit is wonderful! What a great kid and what a lucky kid. Allow yourself to breathe, relax and let go. Enjoy your time with your grandson. What a gift.
Sounds like there is lots of stuff going on so it might be wise to let things happen a bit. VERY HARD to do, but incredibly valuable. Regardless of the outcome of all of this, you will emerge a better, more giving, caring person. Stay focused and stay detached...
