Hi Sandi

A run down on my sitch

1. Snapped having A with friends H jan 05
2. I lied and said it was only EA so did OM
3. H Moved out and he dragged me to C
4. H moved back home and stayed about 18 months i think
5. H left - got an apartement - shock for me. he did not believe it was only EA. C continued for him both as couple and individual.
6. 2008 I came clean about PA
7. H relieved to have the truth moved back home
8. 2 months later - 07/08 he moves out . Very angry about PA

OM has not come clean to his wife. I have no contact with them. My H says he will confront OM when he is ready. He cant stand the thought that the OM does not know that he knows the truth. He will go to OM wife as well. This will be devastating for me, my kids and our friends.

I do have many friends etc I just don't have anyone , as a best friend. I guess like you I shut them down before they get to close.

Oops have to go . Will get back o your reply soon.

Last edited by max030; 10/14/08 03:01 AM.