I was SOOOOOO tempted to reply asking if she wanted me to get one for her so she could put it in her memory book. But I didn't. Not once have I replied to her emails or her calls. I won't play those middle school games. And, if she ever decides to pull the mental/emotional anguish over the accident, I'm gonna throw it right back at her. Seriously.
As far as the drinking, I know he knows he has a problem. That's a start...
Hey Joie! I finally made it here! I'm so glad to see you posting again!!! I always wonder where people have gone and if they're doing ok or not, so good to know you sound good!
I would have been so tempted to email back. I emailed the OW once, but it didn't give me the satisfaction or joy or whatever I was expecting. I don't regret it though, just realized it wasn't something I wanted to do. And I think it's better to be cool like they aren't bothering you, b/c I think she would really enjoy you giving a response as if you were upset! Karen