Hi TxMom, offline for the day. Had such a rough time these last days. I feel like I am isolating myself which I know is bad. My D is really mad at H and is trying to avoid him. The more he calls the more she rejects him. This has really changed her. H was here yesterday...again. I know it is cake eating but I am trying to be nice but if it gets to be too much I might have to go black. He seems very depressed. Just eating junk, spending money like crazy and just not down. I agree with S.T I think it will be a long haul. 21 years is a long time and I read somewhere that for every year of marriage it will take one month.
So TxMom you are possibly looking at 6months which I hope is sooner. Sounds like he is starting to turn around a bit. At least he seems to be thinking things through.
I pray everyday that God will continue to work on my H. I do feel lost without him.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
