As you know W has agreed to come to family birthday party this weekend and is going to ride with me to the party.
My M, S, and W have been going on a Girls night out for years. Since I told them the W is coming the party they wanted to have a girls night out. They asked me about it and said this would not be a good time. Even though I am making good head way and I invited W to the party for the right reasons, still feel that she (W) should not have all of the same good times as she had before walking out. I am afraid that if she keeps getting all of the benefits she had before she walked out, after she walks out. Why should she want to come back the R/M.