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Some oddness....
Is that a word? Oddness?
Well anyways....
W called me while I was at work the other day just to chat.
She said she was going to the local fish and pet store to get some more fish for our tanks.
She said to me "you can meet me there if you want"
(my job allows me to "run errands" if I need too.
I figured what the heck I was bored anyways so I went to meet her.
It seems that sometimes when she wants to reconnect with me she'll do things like ask me if I want to meet her somewhere.

Today she made a big dinner for the family even though she had to work tonight. Lately her work has been waring on her or so it seems. She always tells me of the crap that is going on and that she has threatened to quit a few times.
Weather or not she would...who knows.
I did tell her that she is going to have to come up with her car payment this month as I have other things I need to pay for.
Hopefully it gets the point across that I cant do it all and if she doesn't help than the car gets repo'd.
She said she would try.

I'm still working out and taking care of the kids and their activities while she is at work. Our son (11) goes for his hunters safety course over the weekend \:\) He wants to hunt with dear old Dad and his grandpa. So does Son (10) but he isn't old enough yet.
Some of my best memories were hunting with my Dad. I hope that will hold true with my boys too.


Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
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Gman,now's a bad time to quit a job. Stock market down >1100 points in 2 days? Not a good week to think about quitting a job. any job.

I used to have a ton of fun with my dad, hunting, too. My sons really want to go, but that won't happen for a little while, yet.


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Divorce final: Jan 2009
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Well this past weekend was interesting. A lot of running around getting things done, taking kids here and there.
My S11 past his hunters safety course.
S10 passed his requirements for Aquanaut (scouts)
W got a new MMO game and has been playing it.
The hiccup:
Last night I went and hugged my wife while she was sitting at her computer. She asked why and I said because.
She made a smart Alick comment and I took it wrong.
It hurt but she said she was kidding.
Anyways I was PO'd and she knew it. We even got in a small argument over it. Earlier today I Texted her and said I was sorry and that I took it all wrong.
She called me 3 times while I was at work about "stuff" and was friendly so I guess all is cool.
On other note while we were having a lazy Sunday, my W asked me to get her wallet out of her purse and give it to her. So I did and I noticed that she had put my ring in the change purse portion of the wallet. I gave it to her, and she got out the money she needed for pizza which was being delivered, and gave it back to me to put in her purse.
I probably shouldn't have but I opened the change purse and took out the ring. I put it back on my finger where it belongs. I should have never let her take it off back in July.
Its been almost 2 days now and she either hasn't noticed or just hasn't said anything. I'M not really flashing it in front of her either. I just wonder what she might say when she See's it.

Peace.


Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
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Just got the classic after work text....she is supposedly going to her MF house.......


Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
Joined: Aug 2006
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Well she's seen the ring. I caught her looking at my hand a few times. She hasn't said anything yet. Things have been friendly and light between us. I didn't ask how her MF was. She didn't say either. But its the same guy she occasionally visits (see my earlier stitches.) Just friends....
I met him once and apparently made an impression...he wont come around here and he tells her not to tell me that she talks to him.
LOL
That made my day when I found that out.


Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 390
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Journaling...
W went out to her brothers fiance's stag party last night.
She went with her BSF. She told me the entire run down of the night. This morning she gets home and looks pretty rested for someone who has been partying all night and who didn't get much sleep the night before.
I didn't say much to her. I just wasn't interested in hearing it. I cant believe half of what she says.
I did pray to God for guidance and patience. Right now I need both because all I want is an end to all of this.....


Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
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