Thanks Snodderly, you words are always comforting enough.
So I have a big issue right now with JA.
I don't know what I can do about it.
S7 tells me that the ow usually sleeps there at JA's place now while they are there.
I asked S7 where everyone sleeps.
He said that the ow and and his father usually sleep in the same bed and him and his brother will sleep on the pull out couch. But a lot of times S4 will go join JA and ow in their bed and then the 3 of them sleep together.
I am so mad right now.
I just don't think I can let this one slide.
I think it is totally inappropriate.
Does he care at all the damage he is doing to our children?
I already don't like the idea of the ow sleeping there while they are there but then to sleep with JA while technically we are still married and then allow s4 to share their bed also.