just curious about other piecers, do you actively bring up relationship talk or do you just try to let your actions do their thing.
DbD, I don't bring up the R talk as much as I should, probably. But piecing is a slow process and I'm afraid of going too fast. And sometimes it's just a scary topic to bring up, you know? But the actions equal it out. They say actions speak louder than words!
Originally Posted By: daybyday
what are some of the steps that helped you get there, and how does h show that he is really working at m.
Some steps that have helped me ... My H being transparent and realizing that if I have moments of doubt or question his actions, it's because of what he did. He's getting good at doing little favors for me, something he hasn't done in a long time.
Such as ... I wear a medical ID bracelet and when it broke over the summer. H actually took it to a jeweler for me -- I didn't ask him too. I was stunned! He never does things like that.
He gave me a quick shoulder massage one night last week when I was going off the deep end over something that went wrong. Later on I thanked him, and apologized for having a cow.
