Joie you are right, and I am going to reconsider, and talk to H and decide whats the best thing to do.

I just want her to go away! I am just so tired of it all!

Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda