Can't they chill and let me be free?

[Sugar and Spice]

Thanks guys. Just takin' it easy and trying not to overthink life too much. H didn't talk to me until Saturday when I think he had time to realize that what I said wasn't really all that offensive. He was still kinda "bristly" about it, but I think he actually realizes he hasn't been the poster child for truth recently so he pretty much got over it. He is totally willing to sign it and is now encouraging me to do so. She has about 4 weeks to go so we need to get it done.

So Saturday night I'm at the wedding I'm shooting and the mother of the bride comes up to me (she has known my MIL since she was 14 and has known my H all his life.) and says, "So I hear your divorcing!" and I said, "Not yet." She then tells me she wants to "Kick his a$$" for what he is doing. I told her to feel free. Then she says how what he is doing is so wrong and I agreed, then she asks, "Well what is he doing?" WTF? So I just excused myself. The humorous part of this is that her daughter, the one that got married, is the child of an A. The mother was the OW and got pregnant and had a baby with this guy. He was married and was cheating with this lady. Then he got divorced and married someone else...while still seeing the brides mother. This gives me an insight into how stupid and desparate some of these OW are. Interesting though, how easy it is to judge...