Hi MWG, I am sorry about your son still not acting the way he should. You really have your hands full dealing with TWO misbehaving men! I hope for you that this sitch will change for the better soon. At least your H seems to get a bit more affectionate towards you which helps a bit.
I am happy for you that you like your job. Just take care of yourself. You need to sleep well and I hope your S will understand that as well.