Hope glad you got the book. I think it would work well with you. Ask God to show what way to go. I was lead to that book although I implemented many different things from DR and other books.
Everyone, So I'm sorry I've been away so long. Was so busy over the last weekend. Was S9 bday weekend. Had football games and dad was present most of the weekend. So Disneyland was really really nice. It was actually the best trip we have ever taken. Normally he's irritated, hates, crowds, and it looking back felt like he was just doing his duty and not enjoying us. Its the 1st time in 18 1/2 years he didn't complain or get mad the whole day. I'm speechless. Anyways he texted me the next day and said he had a great time. So I talked to him for and hour and half on Friday. Casual conversation, I talk nothing about our relationship or the OW-ever. Talking about it can come off as needy and not confident so right now I'm acting as if I'm a good friend, with a little flirting. He says you can call me on my personal phone ya know. I say oh well I didn't want to make things hard for you. He says you cant I can do what I want I say ok well I dont have your #. He texts me the # and hour later. I say thanks, wow I have the # to the secret bat phone, maybe you should model the bat costume for me. He says I don't have one I say awe too bad and he says I'll have to look into that. I'm not sleeping with him, but I am flirting. It gives him something to think about. I have 2 1/2 more weeks of Plan A. Its going well. We will see him on Friday for dinner and then to the pumpkin patch with the kids. I'm trying to see him as much as I can meeting his top emotional needs as best I can for the remainder of the month before I go to Plan B. For those of you who have no clue what I'm talking about get the book Surviving An Affair by Willard Harley. As for GAL'ing I'm taking a new 2 hour salsa class on Saturday. Can't wait too fun. How is everyone GAL going? Talk to me guys.
I'll update more soon....
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
