I guess this is how most EA's/PA's start off - venturing into the land of "what if's".
This was my exact thoughts. I suddenly realized how easy it is to fall into the trap of an EA/PA.
The other thing is that as soon as this happened...I started thinking a lot about her and not my W. I guess this is exactly what happens to our ex's and their OM/OW. This situation was a learning experience on how easy it is to make this kind of mistake.
You don't really mean or plan it to happen, it just does....and then they start to fantisize about the other person instead of their significant other.
The Salsa dancing is for me. I'm not planning on including my W in this activity at this point and I don't think she would want to attend. This is my safety net GAL activity.
Getting attention certainly was an ego boost that was very welcome.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
