It isn't me discussing it with her, she is calling the w and bitching her out. I just spoke with her and begged her to stop. She says she will. Brake job will be done tomorrow night. After that, nothing, no favors. I did do a couple of projects this morning and immediately felt better getting things off my list. Camper didn't sell, people bought a new one. Contacted the campground abut storage fees and have taken the W's name off the site. It is now me and Guest. I am watching my grandson Saturday night, he is so excited. I think I'll keep him at the campground so we can have a fire and what not. He calls me Sampy. I am pretty sure I am the only sampy in the world. My D said when they told him he was staying with me, he said Sampy, not Nana, right? Sad to hear, but it tells you how bad her actions are. Her girlfriend that she is staying with called me this morning to tell me about her weekend. she told me she will call me later in the week. She is a peach and I do need someone to talk to but she is definitely the wrong one if she is living with the W.
I am staying focused. I am staying strong. I am telling myself, "You need no one but yourself to survive" "You are surrounded by friends and family who love you, you cannot and will not fall". Feel free to pass that mantra around, it does work.
Found out the brother in law who is living with me, lied to me. Says he really hasn't taslked to his Sis, but I found out today he is. My youngest D told me he gives her advice and tells her things the same he does for me. So he will be treated like her friends and MIL, he will not hear me talk about her or any pain. Talk about your snakes at the breast. Anyone want to buy a camper at Indian Ranch in Webster, MA?
I feel good now after getting projects done, removing her name from my site and reading here. I was the topic of discussion at a dance yesterday afternoon. Friends and people who hardly know me commented on what a great person I was, can't believe he's holding it all together, gotta give him credit, most people would be on the bottle, not walking away from it, he never slows down, etc...I got the lowdown this afternoon. Very nice to have those comments being made when you are not around.
Got my week [planned. Crashing now, busy at job tomorrow, her brakes then Gym,,,,I owe it to my slef to run til I drop to decompress, Wednesday i have jury duty then down to my FIL for dinner. thrusday is projects night, Friday cilling Saturday the camp to close and get my grandson and have some fun with him, youngest D might go too, Sunday relax one project and then football....
Not sure how tight the schedule will stay, but I am planning on it. Tuesday brake job is milestone, once it's done, it will be interesting to see if she asks for something else....Hmmmmmm....Well is dry here....Will post agian tomorro and let you know how the brake job resposne goes...
