Starting from scratch

[daybyday]

just curious about other piecers, do you actively bring up relationship talk or do you just try to let your actions do their thing. i would like to talk about r but am afraid to bring up.. everything is going pretty good, no fights, shows of affection, mostly good stuff, but sometimes it feels that w enjoys the power she gained through this whole thing. i guess the only reason i say that is when i mention something such as my need for affection, she knows its my ll but yet she chooses not to show me for awhile. almost like she is saying,"i'll do it when I get good and ready". i just thought since she is back to rebuilding m and she says she is with me til we die, that she would want to do whatever it takesnto try and make me happy. i have worked very hard at maintaining US and really resent when she chooses not to try to fulfill my needs. (not talking about sex. that is good) i try my ha4dest every day to fulfill hers. w recommited may 16th, so maybe i'm expecting too much too soon . deauxlie had mentioned in bbj thread that things are great with her m. what are some of the steps that helped you get there, and how does h show that he is really working at m. i would love to hear from all who would care to post. i love you all as you keep me on the right track. thanks