I agree with you that I get the feeling that ow is being selfish, by trying to 'win my family' over for herself. She is doing this for H I'm sure, but she does not realize how much she is hurting me with her efforts at getting in H's good books !
Oh well, I guess, it's how it goes, I don't think any ow thinks of what the wife must be going through.
ow had a scratch on her car window and she said to the girls...'oh no, your dad will be angry at me!' D9 told me this and asked me why her daddy would get angry at such a little thing. I explained to her that ow has crashed a few company cars allready and that H is fed up with it. (which is true by the way.)
I think I was just glad to hear that it's possible that H is sometimes angry with her...maybe weird, but it helps me to stop thinking all is peachy between those two. I have the tendency to think that they are living in cloud nine.
Had a good day today...did some household chores, groceries, visited a friend who was celebrating her birthday, picked the kids up from school at mid day and walked them back with our dog..it was lovely and sunny. We cleaned the rabbit's cage, and I did homework with D9 and D7. Cooked dinner and put the kids to bed.
It was quite a lovely day. Tomorrow my parents will be visiting.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus